I’ve gotten to the final post from the trip Mr. Q and I took out east in May.
As promised, I brought something home from this trip to give away so be sure to read to the end today! Or, if you have absolutely no interest in Gettysburg, just go ahead and skip straight to the end now. I won’t mind 😉
For the final three days of our trip, we swung through Philly to pick up our nephew and then we headed to Gettysburg. As I mentioned in an earlier post, I got to see some of the most amazing public gardens on this trip, and in return for his patience, Mr. Q got to see some battlefields.
For those of you who were passing notes about your boyfriend in history class instead of paying attention, the Battle of Gettysburg was the bloodiest conflict of the Civil War with over 51,000 casualties. The battle took place over three days in and around the town of Gettysburg, Pennsylvania in July 1863.

At the time the entire population of Gettysburg was only around 2,400, and it was surrounded by rural farmsteads.

Although I learned lots of facts about why this battle took place here (to prevent the Confederates from taking Harrisburg, PA which was then the capital of Pennsylvania and a crucial supply hub for the union army), and what divisions skirmished where (the 1st Minnesota Infantry charged the confederates near Cemetery Ridge and lost over 80% of their 262 men) , the details that were most interesting to me were how the 2,400 residents of Gettysburg were impacted.
We learned a lot about that on a ghost tour that we took on our first night in town. This was a walking tour of the center of town and our guide pointed out specific buildings that dated back to the war and gave us lots of gruesome details about how the town was eventually inundated with casualties. Certainly if any place was going to be haunted, the town of Gettysburg would be a prime location for it, but almost all Gettysburg ghost stories are complete fiction according to The American Battlefield Trust.
Up until this tour, I hadn’t realized that parts of the battle took place in the town itself, not just out in the surrounding farm fields (I was probably passing a note in class when they talked about that). Some of the buildings in town still have artillery shells embedded in their walls. Many of the women and children in town fled before the fighting began, and most of the rest took shelter in their cellars. Amazingly enough, there was only one civilian casualty of the war and that was a young woman named Jennie Wade. She was kneading dough in the kitchen to make more of the biscuits that she was handing out to soldiers when a bullet passed through two wooden doors and straight into her heart.
It seems miraculous to me that there was only one civilian casualty.
However, although only one civilian died during the battle, the town itself was rendered nearly uninhabitable after it was over. Farm fields had been trampled and/or burned, any livestock was commandeered by the troops, and buildings were badly damaged. But even worse, there were those over 50,000 casualties (the term ‘casualty’ refers to dead, wounded, missing or captured). There were around 7,000 killed in the battle, and another 33,000 wounded. Any large building in the area was turned into a field hospital for the wounded. Many of the women in town were enlisted to act as nurses.
In addition it was a hot and steamy July, and there were 7,000+ dead bodies to be dealt with. The air became incredibly foul, and so did the ground water. I don’t even want to imagine what that was like.
On our 2nd day in Gettysburg, we hired a licensed battlefield guide to take us on a guided tour of the Gettysburg National Military Park. If you ever go to Gettysburg, I can’t recommend this enough. You can hire the guide right at the Visitor’s Center. We paid $117 (plus tip) for a three hour tour in our own vehicle. The guide drives your vehicle, and customizes the itinerary based on your interests.
In our case, Mr. Q wanted to see a bit of everything, but especially where the 1st Minnesota fought.

By the way, there are over 1,300 monuments in this park. It’s a bit overwhelming. In some areas they are just lined up one after another.
Some are a little more simple.

While some are impressively grandiose.

That is the Pennsylvania State Memorial, and the largest monument in Gettysburg which makes sense.
Our guide was a retired college professor and incredibly knowledgeable. Mr. Q and the nephew were enthralled for the entire 3 hours (I may or may not have been passing notes, albeit via text rather than paper).
Once our 3 hour tour concluded, we headed off for lunch and then went back to the Visitor’s Center to see the film, the cyclorama and the museum. It took most of the afternoon to see those, so if you’re planning a trip to Gettysburg keep that in mind. I recommend planning at least a full day for the Military Park and another half day or full day to see the town, maybe do a ghost tour like we did, or tour some of the many historical buildings.
Mr. Q and I had an amazing time on our trip out to the east coast. If you are a fan of gardens, you should add the Brandywine Valley to your bucket list. We totally enjoyed our visits to Longwood Gardens, Winterthur, Nemours, and historic New Castle. Those gardens were just the tip of the iceberg, there are over 30 public gardens in the Philadelphia area.
And if you are a fan of battlefields, the Brandywine Battlefield was very interesting and easy to see in half a day. Gettysburg is about a 2.5 hour drive away, and obviously well worth adding on to your trip.
As I mentioned, I did pick up a couple of things to give away.

I purchased the book, A Year at Brandywine Cottage, at Longwood Gardens.

I’m also including the Vintage Garden Style magazine that I found at a grocery store out there. I purchased the Jennie Wade of Gettysburg book at the National Military Park. It’s a short read telling the story of that one civilian who was killed at the Battle of Gettysburg.

I decided to throw in a few more garden themed items too, including the I.O.D. Lover of Flowers transfer and two of the Dixie Belle Heirloom Roses decoupage papers.
Finally I’m also including some Dixie Belle paint in English Ivy and Magnolia as well as some of their Big Mama’s Butta in a floral scent called Suzanne’s Garden and some of their newest gilding wax in a color called Antique Gold.

That last item, the gilding wax, is in homage to all of the gilding we saw at the Nemours Estate.
I wish I could give these things to each and every one of you, but unfortunately that isn’t possible. But please know that I do appreciate all of you. But unfortunately there will only be one winner of this drawing.
The rules for today’s giveaway: Simply leave a comment on this blog post and let me know which location we visited was your favorite.
Your comment must be left on this blog post, not on Facebook or Instagram.
I will randomly draw the name of a winner for today’s prize from all of the comments left on this post by Sunday, July 6, 2025 at the stroke of midnight (U.S. Central time).
The fine print: no purchase necessary, you must be 18 years of age or older to win, void where prohibited by law, the number of eligible entries received determines the odds of winning, approximate retail value of prize is $200, if the prize is not claimed by Wednesday, July 16, 2025 another name will be drawn at random to win, yada, yada, yada.
Good luck!
Thank you to Dixie Belle Paint Co for supplying all of their items that I’m giving away today!