You may have noticed that I’ve been slowing down a bit lately when it comes to sharing projects here on the blog. That’s because I’ve been focused on something else. Swedish death cleaning.
Let me explain. First off, if you haven’t heard of Swedish death cleaning, the most basic description is that it’s the process of getting rid of stuff that you no longer need/use, and that no one in your family is going to want after you die. The idea is to save your family from having to clear out a lifetime of stuff once you’re gone.
I haven’t actually read the book, or seen the TV series, so I really don’t know much about how it’s supposed to work. But for me, I just realized that our house was full of stuff that we no longer use and that no one (family or otherwise) is going to want when Mr. Q and I are gone. It will be so much easier to just gradually start to go through it without having any sort of deadline.
Now, don’t worry. This wasn’t precipitated by any kind of ill-health, nobody is going to die any time soon, but I did turn 60 on my last birthday so I can’t pretend like I’m ‘middle-aged’ anymore either.
So far I’ve gotten rid of two van loads of stuff that went to the Goodwill, a few electronics that will go to the hazardous waste facility, and one entire metal filing cabinet full of stuff.
The first thing to go was old paperwork.

That was a bit of a process since it involved looking everything over to determine what should be shredded and what could just be thrown away. I had tax returns going back 20 years. Those got shredded. I also had a huge stack of various instruction manuals for appliances, and in many cases I no longer even had the appliance. Those all got thrown. If I need to know how to use something, I can look it up online. I had old copies of resumes, and other work related paperwork although I’ve been retired for going on three years now. Those got tossed as well.
Once all the paperwork was gone, I realized that the cabinet could go too. We put it out at the curb with a ‘free’ sign on it one evening, and the next morning we woke up to find that someone had taken two of the drawers. Argh! What the heck? What were we going to do with a filing cabinet that was missing two drawers?
Fortunately, the person came back later and left a note saying that they wanted the cabinet, but had to find a truck. We offered to deliver it and were happy to see it go.
Another huge category of discarded stuff was serving dishes. I had serving dishes of all kinds; large glass bowls, glass platters, silver-plate items.

I can’t even remember the last time we used most of them. I kept the serving dishes that we use at Thanksgiving, and a couple of platters for bringing brownies to a pot-luck, but the rest went.
I also got rid of some barware.

We just don’t entertain like we used to. Plus that wine opener was a duplicate, do I really need two of them?
I did hesitate for a second over those really adorable stir sticks.

Aren’t they fun? But we’ve never actually used them. They’ve just been gathering dust in a cupboard. They got the ax too.
There were some items that we never use that didn’t get sent to Goodwill though. Instead, I decided it was time to use them.
That included my ‘good’ silverware.

OK, I know, it’s a bit dated. But maybe it’s just old enough to be called vintage? Well, probably not. I think it’s pretty though, and it’s a much better quality than the cheap silverware we were using every day. So I sent the cheap silverware to the Goodwill and filled the silverware drawer with this stuff.
Not only did we donate several van-loads of goods, we also filled up our trash can for weeks. I had a huge box of old photos that I went through and pared down. Remember when we used to get film developed? And you could get doubles? I always got doubles! And probably 85% of those photos weren’t even good ones.
I even threw away my high school year books. I never look at them, why keep them?
I did draw the line at my scrapbooks.

Although I don’t look at them all that often, I just can’t quite bring myself to part with them. Perhaps when I’m in my 80’s I’m going to want to go back and look through them and remember how absolutely frigid it was sailing through the Wachau Valley in November 2014.
Speaking of scrapbooks, it was time to get rid of scrapbooking supplies that I was never going to use. I think 2014 might have been the last time that I seriously worked on a scrapbook. I have done a handful of smaller projects since then, like the index card project from 2019 or the altered recipe box scrapbook from last year.

So I am still hanging onto some of my favorite supplies.
A goodly amount of expired jars of spices also made their way to the trash can, along with other expired items from the pantry.

My Watkins spices were still good though.
I’m definitely not done yet. I still have quite a few cupboards and drawers to go through. And although I cleaned out the carriage house for my sale back in June, I need to go back and do a much more thorough job out there.

That job might require a trip to the dump. Does anyone need any antique bed side rails? Because I have half a dozen of them in there. When you turn beds into benches, you no longer need the side rails.

I always feel like a weight has been lifted when I get rid of stuff that is just taking up space.
That being said, I still have all of my non-collections. I have a rule about them, I only collect things that I’m going to display and/or use on a regular basis. So I still have my ironstone …

And I still have my vintage alarm clocks and cameras, as well as my tiny furniture.

I’m pretty sure that no one in my family is going to want any of my non-collections after I’m gone. And technically, I don’t ‘need’ or ‘use’ these things. So I want to add one extra caveat to the Swedish death cleaning concept. If the items will make for an amazing estate sale, then they are also worth hanging on to 😉
Now, how about you? Is your house full of items that will make for a spectacular estate sale? Or are there lots of things that are just taking up space? Leave a comment and let me know.


I love this term could I substitute it for an Irish death cleaning. I have been on a bit of a mission myself. It’s a lot of work, but I’m still trying to figure out how to take time to do this and work at the same time. It’s not easy. I’m sure someone will snap those cute cocktail stirrers in a heartbeat.
The process feels good!
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It definitely would be harder to devote the time to this if you are still working! You’ll have to take it in smaller chunks, one drawer or closet at a time!
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I’m going to be 66 and only have been retired for one year (not even quite yet) so I haven’t done the cleaning thing yet, but it’s on my list!! We had other more important projects to do first, but our subdivision is having a sale this weekend, so my storage unit is looking pretty good!! I have an antique booth, so extra merchandise is pretty much everywhere! I can’t wait to go thru the house, but most of my stuff laying (literally) around is vintage so hard to part with that. I only wish you would have donated your yearbooks, instead of throwing them in the trash!! So many people look for their yearbooks but I guess if yours were like mine, there was LOTS of writing in them along with many “remember the time we……” usually involving alcohol!
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Well, I went to high school in Boca Raton, Florida … and now I live in Minnesota. So I’m guessing no one in my area would want those old yearbooks 🙂
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I admire you for doing this!! I have had it on my “to do” list for a long time, but it just seems so overwhelming that I move on to the fun projects and promise myself I will tackle all the stuff in the closets and drawers and basement one day, one thing at a time. Thanks for the inspiration!
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You’re welcome Karen Q! Just start small with one drawer … and then keep going. That’s the tricky part 🙂
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I read the book, Swedish Death Cleaning, and it was more of a narrative about why, which we know, and not about how. There’s nothing in there about the order in which it’s done or how to go about it. It mentions what, like old letters and diaries that you wouldn’t want anyone reading upon your death or out-dated clothing that doesn’t fit anyway. It was a thin book that was a quick read but didn’t provide much substance. I think doing what you’re doing is in the spirit of death cleaning.
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Yep, sounds like it is. Thanks Fonda!
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Good for you! I have done that too. It’s a pain and very time consuming, but worth it. 😊
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I think moving is another way to accomplish the same thing 😉
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Yes it does!!
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Timely post as I have been clearing out stuff too! We downsized about 8 years ago but I needed to part with some things we no longer use. Ugh!
your silverware is really nice and glad to see you are enjoying it every day.
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Thanks Paula!
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I think your silverware is so pretty. I love that you gave your old flatware to GW and are using the “good” stuff!
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Me too! I am enjoying using that silverware every day now 🙂
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I’ve been doing a great deal of this lately, too, but didn’t realize there was a term for it. Many things have gone to local thrift shops, recycling, and/or added to the burn pile. I even finally let go of 18 years of Martha Stewart magazines, LOL. I have tons more to sort and discard still, but once I started it felt good to have the space.
Thank you for the term 😊and the additional inspiration!
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That’s a lotta Marth Stewart, lol. It does feel good to have some empty spaces again!
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A few years ago we remodeled our kitchen and I went on a decluttering rampage that started in the kitchen and continued throughout my house. It was very satisfying to get rid of/donate things we no longer used. Bonus that my kids will not have to get rid of the unnecessary clutter when I’m gone.
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I bet they appreciate that!
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