surf’s up.

 I fully admit, I’m a sucker for attractive packaging.  So the other day when I was at Home Depot waiting for some paint to be color matched (to touch up the Carriage House), I was browsing the spray paint aisle and came across this …

This is Behr spray chalk paint in a color called Surf.  Isn’t that a nice looking can of spray paint?  Somehow it’s much more appealing than your typical can of spray paint.

Am I right?  Or is it just me?

And I didn’t even know that Behr was making a spray chalk paint, did you?

It was priced at $9.99, which is just a tad steep for a can of spray paint.  But I went ahead and threw it in the cart to give it a try anyway.

I pulled out this metal plant stand that I’d purchased at a garage sale earlier this summer to be my guinea pig.

After giving it a good cleaning with soapy water, I gave it a few quick coats of the spray paint.

One thing I noticed right off is that this spray paint does not dry nearly as quickly as traditional spray paint.  Just something to keep in mind if you plan to try it.

But it went on beautifully, and it did have a nice matte finish similar to chalk paint.

I got some paint on my hand when I accidentally touched the plant stand before it was dry, and it was not as easy to wash off as chalk paint typically is.

I didn’t attempt to distress the plant stand, so I can’t speak to whether or not the spray chalk paint distresses as easily as other chalk style paints.  I’ll have to experiment with that on another project.

I checked out the Behr website and found a blurb in the description of the product calling it a “simple two-step paint and wax process.”  However, the instructions for use didn’t say anything about having to add a topcoat, wax or otherwise.

But I would guess that it needs a topcoat for durability based on them calling it a “two-step process”, and that you can use any topcoat that you would normally use with chalk paint.

However, I didn’t add a topcoat to mine because as it turns out, this color is a bit brighter than I thought it would be and truthfully it’s not really my vibe.

So in the end, I decided to go back to the drawing board.

After first spraying over the Surf color with a matte black spray paint, I then brushed on the Dixie Belle Patina Paint in Bronze.  While the paint was still wet, I sprayed it with the green activating spray (find a full tutorial on using the Patina Paint here).

Yep, that’s fits my aesthetic much more than the bright turquoise.

The green spray created a nice bit of verdigris.

After adding a small pot of ornamental kale, I put the plant stand in my recent sale.

It almost sold.  And by that I mean that someone put it in the ‘holding area’, but then they changed their mind and didn’t buy it.

Oh well.  Maybe next time.

Meanwhile, which version did you like better?

White, turquoise or bronze?

Leave a comment and let me know.

once again, I caved.

Every time I.O.D. comes out with a new release I tell myself I’m not going to go wild.  I’m not going to order a bunch of new stuff.  I have a large stash of older stuff that I should use up.  Etc., etc.

And then I see what’s on offer and I cave.

Such is the case with the new I.O.D. Clementine transfer.

I just couldn’t resist.  Look how pretty it is!

It is one of the smaller ones, so priced just under $25.  So maybe not too much of a splurge, right?

As you can see, although this is part of the I.O.D. 2025 Holiday Collection, it doesn’t have a super strong Christmas vibe.  I’d say the colors make it feel more fall-ish.

To begin with, I decided to try one out on a cannister that I brought home from the Goodwill store near my mom’s house (back right).

I clearly must not have been too impressed with the result the first time I painted it back in May because I never even shared it here on the blog.

I did put it in my spring sale, but it didn’t sell.

So clearly no one else was too impressed with it either, it was due for a do-over.

I sanded it down and then gave it a coat of Rust-Oleum’s Ultra Matte black spray paint.

Once the paint was fully dry, I simply applied one of the Clementine transfers.

Then I sanded the entire thing lightly using one of Dixie Belle’s sanding sponges.  I find that they work really nicely on a curved surface.

I will note that you can see some brush strokes under that Rust-Oleum paint.  Although it’s called ‘Ultra Matte’, it actually does have a bit more sheen that I expected.  And sheen always highlights brush strokes.  Just something to note.

I finished things off with a top coat of Dixie Belle’s clear wax.

I loved the way the Clementine transfer looked over the black paint, so I pulled out a stash of French flower buckets that my friend Sue found at a garage sale for me.

After giving three of the buckets a couple of quick coats of the Rust-Oleum Ultra Matte black and letting them dry, I applied some more of the Clementine transfers.

You’ll notice that the finish is much smoother when not applied over previously brushed on paint.

Once again, after a quick, light sanding, I finished them off with some clear wax.

The colors in the one with the pink cabbage in particular inspired me to fill them with some of my dried hydrangeas.  The deep rose color of my Quick Fire Fab hydrangeas were a perfect match.

While my dried Limelights were perfect for the one with the oranges.

All of these will be available at my upcoming occasional sale.

I hope some of you locals can make it.

Stay turned for next week when I’ll be sure to share my address and any other sale details.

As for the rest of you, did you cave in and purchase any of the new I.O.D. transfers?  Or am I the only one who can’t seem to resist them?  Leave a comment and let me know.

the ombré nesting boxes.

Recently my friend Terri gifted me with a set of nesting boxes.

These are the real McCoy, made out of wood rather than heavy cardboard.

The green wasn’t really working for me, but not to worry, Terri knows me very well and intended for me to paint these.  She won’t be offended that I didn’t like the green.

I thought this might be a good opportunity to use some of the new Countryside Collection colors from Dixie Belle, so I pulled out 4 of them that I thought would work beautifully together on the boxes.

However, after painting each box in one of the colors, I decided that the Oxford Fog was out of place.

So I decided to add in a color from Dixie Belle called Gardenia instead.

So, from top to bottom we have Gardenia, Chantilly, French Villa and Truffle.

They created a lovely neutral ombré sort of look.

I don’t know, is ombré still in?  Apparently it depends who you ask, some sources say it’s out, others say it’s making a come back.  Either way, I’m loving it on these boxes.

After painting each box, I sanded them to distress the edges and then finished the bottom three with a mixture of Dixie Belle’s Big Mama’s Butta mixed with some of their brown wax.

Before adding a topcoat to the top box I decided to add a paint inlay from I.O.D.

This is from the Floriography set.

After letting it dry, and then spraying the inlay with some Rust-Oleum matte clear spray to seal it, I also added a coat of the butta and wax mix to this box.

I staged my pictures using an urn that I picked up at a garage sale this summer.

I did debate leaving it ‘as is’, but it just didn’t feel quite right with that pinkish toned terracotta coming through the faux paint job.  So I gave it another kind of faux paint job using Dixie Belle’s Patina Paint in Iron paired with the Green Spray to give it a rusty look.

This was one of the items I did on my assembly line rustification day.

I filled it with some dried flowers from my new Quick Fire Fab hydrangea hedge.

These have a darker color than my usual Limelight or Vanilla Strawberry hydrangeas.

I also used a stack of old books.

I purchased that old bible at a garage sale, and I’ve never been able to figure out why there is paper lining the spine of the book.  I don’t think the spine was meant to be open, that just happened over time.  By when was it lined with that paper?  If any of you know when or why this technique was done, please let me know in a comment.

And also let me know what you think of the ombré nesting boxes!

more summer reading.

I was so pleased with the results that I got with the books that I painted a couple of weeks ago that I decided to keep the black set for myself.

And then make some more!

So I went back to the thrift store and purchased another six books and got to painting.

This time I was a little smarter about my selection and I only purchased those books that were already black.  I still had to paint them, but it only took one coat, and I didn’t have to worry about getting the inside edges of the covers.

After painting all six books in Dixie Belle’s Caviar, I pulled out the same two I.O.D. transfers that I used last time to add to them; Wilde Bloemen and Étiquettes .

I also used the Dixie Belle Gold Pen to add some horizontal lines here and there.

I finished them off with a coat of Dixie Belle clear wax.

For the 2nd set of three books, I decided to try a different floral.  This time I went with the I.O.D. Saint Germain transfer.

Isn’t that pretty over black?

Now I’m thinking that I’ll need to use this combo on a toolbox!

Although that being said, I think those florals would look pretty over Dixie Belle’s Ecru or Drop Cloth too.  On books or toolboxes.

OK, so which floral do you like better?

Wilde Bloemen on the left or Saint Germain on the right?

Leave a comment and let me know.

assembly line rustification.

I had a couple of rusty things at my sale last May including a tall planter, some old iron bedsteads, and a small statuette.

And they were among the first things to sell.  I think that must mean that other people love this rusty look as much as I do.  So I’ve been stocking up on stuff to rustify (excuse the made up word) for my next sale.

I’ve been salvaging various planters from my neighbors Ken & Arlene.  Arlene is no longer able to garden and the pots have been sitting around empty for a couple of seasons now.  Ken was just going to toss them, so I saved them from the trash heap.

These will look fabulous with the rusty treatment.

I’ve also got a pile of random stuff like the ‘statues’ that I bought at a garage sale this summer …

And I also have some faux pumpkins to make rusty for fall.

Since I have so many things to make rusty, I decided to tackle it assembly line style.  Basically I put out a variety of worktables, line everything up and then work my way down the row with each step of the process.

Step 1:  Wash everything using the garden hose and some Dawn dish soap.

Step 2:  Spray everything with flat black primer.

I’ve found this to be the quickest and easiest way to do a lot of items at once.  I have also used the red spray primer, which is closer to a rust color, but either one will work.  Dixie Belle also makes a primer specifically for use with the patina paints, and it’s also that rusty red color.  But it goes on with a brush, and when I’m working with this many pieces at once, spraying saves a lot of time.

Step 3:  After mixing it well, I stipple on Dixie Belle’s Iron patina paint using their Oval Medium brush.

Of course, you don’t have to use this brush.  You can use pretty much any brush, but the job goes much quicker with a larger brush that holds more paint.

 Today’s q tip:  applying the Patina paint with a stippling motion rather than a brushing motion prevents brush strokes.  The activating spray (which is the next step) tends to pool in brush strokes making them more obvious, which doesn’t look natural on a rusty item.

Step 4:  After the first coat of Iron paint is dry, stipple on a 2nd coat and while it’s still wet, spray it with the Green Patina Spray.

Step 5:  Wait.

I find that out of all of the various patina paint/spray combos this rusty look takes the longest to develop.  If you use the Copper or Bronze paint, the verdigris appears almost immediately.  For example, I painted the pumpkin stems with the Bronze paint, added the green spray, and an hour or two later they looked like this.

But the rust takes a bit more time.  As in days, rather than just minutes or hours.

Here are the pots after 2 days.

They aren’t quite rusty enough yet, but they’ll get there.

I have found that leaving the item out in the rain will really get the rust going.  When the weather doesn’t cooperate, I spray the item with tap water using the Dixie Belle Continuous Fine Mist Spray Bottle and that will help too, just not as much as rain water.

Step 6:  You have a few options for the final step.  The easiest is to simply skip using any sort of topcoat over your rusty item.  That’s my choice for anything that’s going in the garden.

Those items aren’t going to be handled a lot, so no worries about rust getting onto someone’s hands or clothing.  I’m also not worried about these items continuing to rust over time.

For the most part I have found that this finish holds up quite well outdoors without a top coat on most items with plaster items being the exception.  I’ve had to touch up that plaster pedestal shown above after a year spent outside.  I haven’t top-coated any of the items in my own garden including this bench and they’ve held up for multiple years now despite our harsh Minnesota climate.

However, I purposely placed the bench in a garden bed so that no one will be tempted to sit on it.

If it were going to be used for seating, I would add a top coat.  You have a couple of options.  First, you could use Dixie Belle’s Patina Guard.

This product will stop the “rusting” process and protect your patina finish (and also your pants when you sit on a rusty bench).

However, it will also darken the color a bit and add some sheen.

Here is a rusty pedestal I painted before adding Patina Guard.

And here it is after.

So just keep that in mind if you plan to use the Patina Guard.

If you don’t like that look, another option is to use a spray matte sealer over a rusty finish.  I like to do that with items that are going to be handled more frequently.

I hope the info in today’s post has been helpful, or has inspired you to try the Patina Paint.  Or maybe you’ve already tried it?

If so, be sure to leave a comment and let me know.

Thank you to Dixie Belle Paint Co for providing the Patina Paint products used in my assembly line rustification process.

my summer reading list.

I stopped off at the thrift store the other day to pick up a few books to add to my summer reading list.

LOL, just kidding.  I didn’t buy these to read, I bought them to paint.  which is not to say there aren’t a few options here that I might enjoy reading.

But I was surfing around on pinterest the other day and I came across this image …

and it inspired me to do some more book painting.

Is it just me, or does that image seem AI generated?  I don’t know, maybe it isn’t, but it just seems too perfect.  And I also saw the same exact image but in black and white.  I also couldn’t really track down the origin of this photo, it just has been shared and re-shared by individuals without any attribution.

Regardless, I was inspired by the colors and the florals on those books.

So I got out my Dixie Belle paint in Secret Path and in Kudzu to see what I could create.  After painting three of the books in each color, I started embellishing them.  I used a some floral transfers from a few different I.O.D. sets; Sarah Featon’s Botanicals, Rose Botanical and Wilde Bloemen.

Next I added a few random bits of gold typography from the I.O.D. Étiquettes transfer.

I also added some horizontal gold lines to the book spines using Dixie Belle’s Gold Marker.

Once all of those elements were in place, I gave the books a coat of Dixie Belle’s clear wax.  Then I used some of their Dixie Dirt in the color called Earth to add a little faux wear.  Dixie Dirt is a powder pigment that you can use to … well … make things look a little dirty.

I use a small artist’s brush to apply a little of the Dixie Dirt to the top of each book spine.

I kept it fairly subtle, but it definitely helped the books not look quite so freshly painted.

I kept aside 3 of the books to paint based on another inspiration pic from pinterest.

Isn’t that gorgeous?

I first painted the last 3 books using Dixie Belle’s Caviar, then I added more of the same embellishments I used on the previous books.

Only this time I used one floral transfer and applied it across all three books instead of using an individual one on each book.

And isn’t that transfer perfect over black?  It’s from I.O.D.’s Wilde Bloemen set, and it definitely has that look of a Dutch still life floral.

I have to admit that I like the black books even better than the green and purple books.

The gold elements really pop over the black.

I love the way these turned out.  So much in fact, that I’m going to keep them for myself.  I’ve already ordered more of the Wilde Bloemen transfer so that I can paint up some more too.

What do you think of these painted books?  Leave a comment and let me know.

a cat in a hat.

It has been a very difficult time for us this week as we had to say goodbye to our beloved cat, Lucy.

Lucy came into our lives nearly 18 years ago.  We weren’t planning on getting another cat, well, in fact we were planning on definitely not getting another cat.  But then we met Lucy on a visit to Mr. Q’s aunt & uncle’s house.  Apparently someone had dropped her off out in the country to fend for herself (why do people do that?).  Aunt Judy was feeding her, but they didn’t want to take her in.

Lucy was special though.  For one thing, she was very pretty.

Her fur was as soft as rabbit fur.

And that face!  She was so adorable!

But more than that, she was the friendliest thing.  Immediately upon seeing us, she came up to us and reached out to be picked up.  Once in Mr. Q’s arms, she nuzzled his ear and started to work her charms.

We tried to remain resolute.  We went home without her.  Because we didn’t want another cat.

But all night we were thinking about what a sweetheart she was, and maybe it would be OK to have just one more cat in our lives.

We went back for her the next day.  Who would have thought that she would then be in our lives for 18 years?

Lucy was special.  I know everyone probably says that about their pets, but she really was.

She loved to be held and was such a snuggler.

She was never happier than when she was riding around on Mr. Q’s shoulders.

When we went to bed at night she would impatiently wait for me to put my book down, and then she would insist that I make room for her on my pillow.  If I didn’t comply, she would literally try to get comfortable on my head. No matter how many times I tried to move her off my pillow, I would always wake up to a crick in my neck and Lucy comfortably ensconced on the pillow.

Handyman Ken always said she was more like a dog rather than a cat.  She would run up to greet him when he came out into the back yard, wanting to be picked up and petted.  He always took such good care of her when we were traveling.

I haven’t shared too much about Lucy here on the blog, just the occasional photo bomb.

She always had to check out just what it was that I was focusing on so intently.

And she had to thoroughly inspect any piece of furniture that I brought home to makeover.

And then there was the post where I was explaining that the chaise lounge on my porch was really just a glorified cat bed.

I’ve never been one of those ‘oh look at these 500 photos of my cat, isn’t she awesome?’ sort of people.  But I hope you’ll forgive me today for sharing the handful of photos that I do have of Lucy.  The fact that I didn’t take a million photos of her is in no way an indication of how much I loved her.  Both Mr. Q and I loved her tremendously.

Sadly, as we all know, cats don’t live forever.  In fact, having Lucy for 18 years was far more than we ever could have reasonably expected.

Her health had been inexorably declining over the last several years, but up until recently we felt that she still had a good quality of life even though she had clearly slowed down quite a bit.  She had more good days than bad days.  She was still demanding to go outside on a daily basis, although she had started to turn around and say ‘no f’n way’ when we opened the door and she realized the temp was below zero.  And she was still stealing my pillow.

But about a week ago she stopped coming into our room at night.  I could no longer entice her to eat, even though I tried every treat designed for finicky cats on the market.  It also became clear that she was suffering.  She would struggle to stand up, and to lie down.  Her fur had gotten incredibly matted over this past winter, and she was nothing more than skin and bones.  It was becoming obvious that we could no longer hope that she would just pass painlessly in her sleep.

So we made the impossible decision to have her euthanized.  Although I don’t necessarily want to talk about it, I do want to share that we used CodaPet.com to find Dr. Keri Wasmoen.  She was incredibly kind and so, so gentle with Lucy.  If any of you find yourself in a similar situation, I highly recommend her.

She also did her best to reassure us that we were doing the right thing, that providing a peaceful, pain-free end is the kindest thing you can do for a pet that is suffering.

But it’s also one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do.

I’m not sure how long it’s going to be before I quit making sure that I left the basement door cracked so she can get to her litter box, or checking at the door to see if she’s ready to come in.

So please forgive me if I’m not my normal self for a while as I work my way through the grief of losing a much beloved pet.  She will be missed.

it must be do-over week.

Well, I guess it must be do-over week.

On Monday I shared the do-over of a big metal box.

Then on Wednesday I shared the do-over of a miniature credenza.

And FYI, one of my readers kindly pointed out that I put the Union Jack flag upside down.  I’m pretty embarrassed to have gotten that wrong, I hope no one took offence.  But that means I’ll need to do-over my do-over.  Luckily this is a miniature piece of furniture and not a full sized one!

Today I’m sharing the do-over of this bucket.

I painted that up last year for my Carriage House sale and I added an I.O.D. paint inlay to it.

This was my 2nd use of that particular inlay, and as you can see the result was rather faint.  For comparison purposes, here is how the first use of that inlay looked …

That crate was quite nice, but the bucket really turned out just a bit blah.  The inlay wasn’t really a good fit for it.

So I decided another do-over was in order.  After painting over the inlay with a couple of coats of Dixie Belle’s Drop Cloth, I went through my stash of transfers.  I definitely need to start using up some of the transfers that I have on hand and stop buying more new ones!

I ended up pulling out the Champs de Lavende transfer from re.design with prima.  I’d purchased this one a couple of years ago and I always planned to put it on the front of a dresser or something, but I just never did.

So even though I knew that using it on this bucket would mean cutting off about half of the transfer and discarding it (because the transfer is 24″ tall, way taller than my bucket), I decided to go for it anyway.

Before adding the transfer though, I gave the inside of the bucket a couple of coats of Dixie Belle’s Secret Path.

Then I added the Champs de Lavende transfer all the way around the outside of the bucket.

I just love the detail of that little bee.

Once I had all of the transfers applied, I gave the bucket a couple of coats of Dixie Belle’s flat clear coat on both the inside and outside.

Now, you might be thinking ‘what in the world is one supposed to do with this bucket’?  Obviously it’s not going to be used for scrubbing the floor.

But I think it would be adorable as an Easter basket.  Fill it with faux grass, a giant chocolate bunny and colorful Easter eggs.

OK, so I didn’t actually have any of those things on hand to fill the bucket for a photo, so I made do with an aluminum bunny mold and some faux flowers.  But you get the idea.

And speaking of bunnies, I have one last do-over for you.

I painted up this bunny pull toy back in February 2023.

I brought him to the shop back then, but he didn’t sell.

To be honest, I sort of forgot that I even had him.  But I came across him while looking for anything at all to put in that bucket and decided to give him a quick makeover as well.

I gave him a fresh couple of coats of Dixie Belle’s Drop Cloth, then after a good sanding to distress the paint, I added that section of the I.O.D. Traditional Pots transfer.

Perhaps the warm white will appeal to a buyer more than the former grey color did.  We’ll see.

I did take all three of these items, the bucket and the two bunnies, into the shop where I sell on consignment this week (Reclaiming Beautiful in Stillwater, MN).  So if any of you locals need to get out this weekend, be sure to stop by and check them out!

I wish I knew.

In case you haven’t already figured it out for yourself, I’m not terribly tech savvy.

Sure, sometimes my 87 year old handyman neighbor calls me over to help figure out how to print his Christmas card mailing labels.  But for the most part I only know just enough about technology to get by.

I probably barely scratch the surface when it comes to the things I could be doing with my new cell phone because I can’t be bothered to figure them out.

I’m also not willing to switch to vlogging rather than blogging because I don’t want to have to learn an entirely new skill; how to take good videos, and then use the software necessary for editing them (the real challenge).

All of that being said, I do mostly manage when it comes to blogging.

But there is one thing that I just haven’t figured out, and that’s how to know what is driving traffic to my blog.

For example, in the month of November my most visited post was my blogiversary giveaway.

That’s not surprising.

But my 2nd most visited post in November 2024 was from May 2020; the flower collector secretary.

Where did that come from?  Why are so many people finding that post 4 years later?

And how in the world did that post become my most popular post in 2024 with over 4,000 views?

I wish I knew.

I mean, sure, that was a fun makeover.  But honestly, that use of the Sea Glass color on the interior feels a bit dated to me now.

Sidebar:  look how ridiculously large I made my watermark back then.  That’s embarrassing.

I do have some analytics built in to my WordPress blog, but they aren’t terribly helpful.  For example, my stats page says that February 16, 2020 was the day with the highest number of visitors to my blog.

Weird.

I didn’t even publish a post that day.  That’s two days after I posted this dresser.

My stats page also tells me that my most popular category in all of 2024 was “happy holidays.”

That’s where I put all of my Christmas project posts, so that’s interesting.  I feel like Christmas projects are just a small percentage of my content throughout the year.

My 2nd most popular category for 2024 is “furniture.”, with “toolboxes.” as a close 3rd.  That sort of tells me what people are interested in.  But as with all stats, there is more to the story.  I need to know how many ‘furniture’ posts there were in 2024, compared to how many ‘toolboxes’ posts.  That would have a significant impact on the number of visits each category received.  But my WordPress stats don’t give me that number.  So does that stat actually tell me anything?

I do get some very basic stats on ‘referrers’, so you’d think that would help tell me where traffic is coming from.  My top referrer is still pinterest, but I don’t get any specifics on which pin is driving the traffic.  My 2nd most popular referrer is google.  Um, yeah.  That doesn’t help either.

I could try using the free version of Google Analytics to figure out where traffic is coming from, but it looks rather complicated to use.  As mentioned earlier, learning to use a new software is definitely not something I enjoy.  Also, one source I found noted that “Google Analytics collects visitor data and analyzes it to provide insight into your website’s traffic and performance. Google then re-uses these data to power its extensive ad tech ecosystem. Like other Google services, it is a privacy-invasive tool that customers pay with their data- or rather, with their visitors’.”

That doesn’t sound good, does it?  I definitely don’t want to invade your privacy.

So I guess for now I’ll just be left to wonder why a post from 4 years ago has become so popular this year.  I wish I knew.  Maybe you know?  If so, be sure to leave a comment!

thank you!

Today seems like an appropriate day to send out a heartfelt thank you to everyone who took the time to leave a comment on my blogiversary post (FYI, for my non-American readers, it’s our Thanksgiving holiday today).

I got so many lovely comments from you, and that reminded me that you guys are still out there enjoying my posts … even if you rarely take the time to comment.

And you know what, that’s OK.  I get it.  I’m right there with you as an infrequent commenter myself.

So honestly, if you’re not into leaving comments, don’t feel like you should.  I don’t want anyone to feel bad about not leaving comments.  Maybe just leave one once a year on my blogiversary post and that will be enough 😉

That being said, it does sound like quite a few of you find the comment process cumbersome, so I did want to touch on that for a minute.

WordPress really works hard to keep spam comments at bay.  I’m sure you can imagine just how many spam comments I get every day, and for the most part WordPress catches 99% of them (probable statistic) and puts them in a separate folder for me to review.  This is an awesome feature since it means I don’t have to go through and delete a gazillion spam comments one by one.

To help them accomplish that I have a setting in place that requires me to approve the first comment left by anyone.  When you try to leave a comment you’ll get a window that asks you to “log in or provide your name and email to leave a comment”.  Then you can fill in your name, email address and possible the name of your website (that one is optional).  You’ll also have to option to save your name, etc. for later.  If you do that, you’ll have to set up a password.  I recommend not doing that if you hate coming up with memorable passwords (or is that just me?).

After filling all of that out and submitting your comment, you should see something like this:

Your comment is awaiting moderation. This is a preview; your comment will be visible after it has been approved.

Once I have approved that first comment, future comments don’t need approval as long as  they are left with the exact same name and email address (and possibly a website name if one was filled in the first time).  If there is a typo anywhere, or if you put your name in as “Linda” one time, and “linda” another time, and then “LindaS” another time … well, those will all have to await new approval.

So if you ever leave a comment and it doesn’t show up right away, that might be why.  I try to approve legit comments quickly, but I don’t always get to it.

Of course, WordPress isn’t perfect.  There are also occasions when honest comments end up in that spam folder.  I’m not exactly sure why that happens.  Sometimes it’s because the comment includes a link, but other times I really can’t figure out why.  I am not nearly as good at checking the spam folder on a regular basis, but I do try to sift through it and retrieve the non-spam comments now and then.  So that can also explain a lag between the time you leave a comment and when it actually shows up.

Another thing to note, if the email address you use is associated with a WordPress account, you will have to know your password to leave a comment.  And let’s face it, how many of us can actually keep track of all of our passwords?  So that can be a problem too.

So yeah, commenting can be cumbersome.  I get it.  So don’t worry about it.

OK, so with that I’m off to enjoy the holiday with family.  If you’re in the U.S., I hope you’re having a wonderful Thanksgiving.  And if you’re not, thank you for following me from wherever you are.  I appreciate all of you!